Ruby’s 6th birthday party
My niece Ruby turned 6 recently, and we celebrated with a rainbow butterfly party. The decorations and party things (cups, napkins) were all rainbow or butterfly-themed.
Rainbow butterfly party decorations on the gazebo
Rainbow napkins and butterfly cupsThe party guests (family and friends) were encouraged to wear rainbows or butterflies. Jac stuck butterflies onto the backs of our jackets and we each wore rainbow T-shirt like good daggy aunties. Others wore rainbow necklaces, scarves and socks. Ruby was delighted, especially when Uncle Mike wriggled his rainbowy toes at her.
Uncle Mike’s rainbow socksAs usual, the party food was supplied by family and friends. Sausage rolls (meat ones and vegetarian ones), super sticky honey joys, lemon slice, chipolatas (chicken, pork and beef) with tomato and barbecue dipping sauces, fairy bread, a rainbow fruit platter, my mum’s pork wantans with chilli sauce, and a gooey baked cheese – this time, a Camembert.
Sausage rolls
Lemon slice
Honey joys
Vegetarian sausage rolls
Chicken chipolatas
Fairy bread
Rainbow fruit platter by my sister CW
CheeseboardBaked Camembert or Brie is fast becoming a staple at our family get-togethers. The cheese is studded with fresh garlic, sprinkled with rosemary and drizzled with olive oil, then baked in the oven until it’s melted and gooey.
Baked Camembert with rosemary and garlic
My mum turned up with a big bowl of her homemade pork wantans. These, and the meat sausage rolls were easily the most popular party food items. I’d love to know how many wantans I could eat if I had that bowl all to myself. How many do you think you could eat?
My mum’s pork wantans
The girl with the wantan in her handTemporary tattoos were a must-have accessory at this party – rainbow and butterfly tattoos, of course.
Temporary tattoos were a must-have accessory at this partyThe face-painting booth did a roaring day’s trade. The birthday girl requested (surprise, surprise!) a butterfly.
A face-painted butterflyThe kids coloured in their goodie bags.
Colouring in their own party bags
Whenever there’s a party, my brother twists balloons for the kids. No matter how many balloon dogs his dad’s made for him, Caleb is mesmerised by the process – the pumping of the balloon and the twisting and tying that follows.


And when he has that finished balloon dog in his hands, he’s absolutely thrilled to bits.
It’s a doggie!
A cheeky hello from Zoe to Auntie Wanda
Zoe digs around in the balloon bag to find a red balloonZoe, with a war-painted butterfly face, asked her dad to make her a flower, which she brandished like a sword. Did you notice she’s wearing the ballerina dress from her birthday earlier this year?
Face-painted Zoe with her balloon flower. She’s got a butterfly temporary tattoo on her armRuby didn’t have a birthday cake – she had lots of rainbow butterfly birthday cupcakes.
Nanna takes a photo of the rainbow butterfly birthday cupcakes
Lighting the birthday candlesRuby’s dad lifted her up so she could blow out her birthday candles. Note: she’s still clutching a wantan in one hand.
Ruby’s dad lifts her up to blow out the candles.As soon as the candles were out, eager kids (little and big) swooped in to claim a cupcake. We pretty much destroyed all the cupcakes.


Caleb tries to cover up his dropped cake crumbs by getting his mum to stand on them. That’s a novel way to clean up your mess!
Juji and I found ourselves unexpectedly leading a boisterous game involving kids on the gazebo pretending to be animals. It was a noisy menagerie of chickens, ducks, horses, elephants, snakes, frogs, giraffes and rabbits. Have you heard a duck giggle and quack at the same time? I have!
Chickens!‘Pass the parcel’ was a little more challenging for some participants – once the kids learned they’d win a prize if they were holding the parcel when the music stopped, the parcel moved much more slowly and reluctantly around the circle! Hair clips for the girls and cars for the boys (everyone was happy, but if I’d been playing, I’d have wanted a car).
Ruby opens her presents; Caleb gets a car in ‘Pass the parcel’I love taking photographs at our parties. Like many photographers, I don’t like being photographed myself and am much happier behind the lens than in front of it. Once in a while, I do think about the fact that there are very few photos of me. The photographs represent not what I look like, but my observations and what was significant in my life. What do photographs tell you about the photographer?
Happy birthday, Ruby!
The girl with a honey joy in her hand